I spent most of my life defending myself until I realized that love is actually my best defense. But I’ll never forget coming to a place where I thought: Okay, Lord, if I am not going to defend myself … read more

And if we don’t know this, we can’t love anyone either. If we don’t know what love is, how are we ever going to love anybody? If the harder we fight, the worse it gets, we are not fighting to love, we … read more

I guess it depends on what you mean by the word “unconditional.” But I think it is safe to say that God’s love is not subject to me. So, if God only loved me if I did or didn’t do certain things, that … read more

The problem with a soft heart: it’s not that hard to hurt. So, the world would say that we have thin skin because we are easily hurt. And then the mistake we often make is that we harden our hearts b … read more

Have you ever heard of the word, altruism? Altruism is a word psychologists use in place of the word love. Why would they not use the word love? Because they either have no idea what love is or becau … read more