how to lead your children to suffering

In the name of love our children are being led to their own suffering. It’s not love to demand respect. Love doesn’t expect anything from anyone but itself. Love puts itself last not first, and it does not demand its own way. Fear does all of that. Love’s worst enemy in our lives is our own feelings. Don’t follow your feelings, they will lead you astray. Love seeks the truth at all cost. The truth is often hidden, but it’s never hard to find. If we look at the truth and willingly ignore it, we are not loving. Truth does not need us to defend it. It stands on its own and nothing will change it. There are not different truths for different people. There is only one truth and none of us escape it. John 8:32 , “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. “ Mark 9:35 "Whoever wants to be first must take last place and be the servant of everyone else." Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it.”