The idea that hardening our heart will protect us is not wise, and it’s not the easy way out. It may be easier right now, but like all fearful decisions, it brings immediate relief with the cost of de … read more

Loving someone who won’t love us is always painful. Actually, anyone not loving us is painful. We can pretend we don’t care, but that is just a fearful response to the fact we do care. Whatever you do … read more